Thursday, August 6, 2009

Be motivated: 15 points to motivate yourself! ( pt 3)

How are your day? Do you motivate yourself everyday? Be motivated! Come and read this "15 points to motivate yourself!" It will bright your day up. Today i will continue to talk another 3 points to motivate yourself in detail.

4. Reflect on KARMA.

Everything has a cause and effect. Meaning that everything happen in your life that is a reason behind that. What is the reason? We may know or we would not know unless that we have supernatural power to see the cause of the happening. Or to see the past. If we always complaint and sad about the unfairness that we face in our life, it would not change anything if we keep on moaning and grieving. Like what i had said in my early article : Be motivated: 15 points to motivate yourself ( part1)


" If you know a problem can be solved, why worry?
If you know a problem cannot be solved, why worry? " ~~ Shantideva~~


So, if we across with any problems or dissatisfaction in the life, change it or face it. If we cannot fix it, just reflect it that " this could because of my past bad karma that i had done maybe in past life or present life. It is good that now i am clearing my karmic debts."


Again, everything happen for a good reason. When we cannot do anything to solve the problem and forced to face it and live with it. On the other side, it is helping us to clear our karmic debts. It is so great! So, don't be depress and start to cheer yourself up. Be motivated!!


5. Remember that we are NOT PERFECT.


This is a very important: we are NOT PERFECT. It is so true that nobody is perfect in the world unless you want to lie to yourself. Everyone has weakness and did a lot of mistake in the past and present. It is normal to make mistake and has weakness. However, we just need to learn from the experience and improve on it. When we aware we are not perfect, we will not always criticize and blame ourselves. It is also prove that you have wisdom and start to love yourself.

So, STOP blaming yourself; STOP criticize yourself; STOP holding responsibility in every mistake and problems... STOP it now !!! You are not perfect! I am not perfect too! But do not get the wrong message here that you tend to use it as your excuses to create more problems, and even do bad things and make you feel better when do bad things. So, clear up your mind. Do not get into wrong point and jeopardize yourself and others and try to blame me for this.


Remember that we are not perfect is for you to forgive yourself when you unintentionally done something wrong or mistake. Moreover, this is also allow you to accept yourself that your are not perfect and motivate yourself again. Remember that, learn from the mistake and improve on it. Once again, do not use it as a excuse to do bad things.

6. This will also PASS.

This is the SENTENCE that i always use --- " This will also PASS."


Everything that happen in life will pass....It would not FREEZE and STOP at the point permanently. Whatever happen, it will still " PASS"... Our life still move on... Everything is impermanence. None of the things is long lasting or forever... There is one things in permanent or everlasting--------the IMPERMANENCE. ( ANICCA)

We can use it in our daily life. The problems, obstacles, hindrance that we faced in life it will also pass. It would not stay there longer and eternally. This will also pass. This is a relief for us. So, we shall not lock ourselves in the prison always ( the problem we have face). We shall not always be depress and discourage when we faced obstacles in life. We shall now stand up and say it loudly " this will also pass." This is a good motivation we can do in daily life. Practice and cultivate it in your mind everyday. Now, anything turn out in your life that is not ease you, just use the magic words-" This also will PASS!!!" It is very easy way to motivate yourself, right?


So, my dear friends, do not give up. We must motivate and cheer ourselves up everyday. I know this is not easy but if you start to try use it, you will see the result. Trust me and believe in yourself. The person that can help you is --- yourself. I can do it, you also can do it. Be motivated!!!

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