Stages in life

We all have to go thru this stages in life irrespective who or what we are.
Very often when we are there at that time it seems too personal for us. we view everything so important. but when we look back it does not seen such a big deal after all.


I do remember a time when i was in college, a friend of mine we asking me if i would like to buy his bike. i decided to give it a try..a test drive on his bike. it was a very powerful bike with hand clutches.


I put on the kick start and start riding. i'm not very good at it but i give it a try. while i'm coming down a hill, i release the hand clutches to slow down the bike but it slow down real hard that i had almost fell from it. i feel really uncomfortable about the bike as i feel that the bike really need a lot of maintenance to do.

On returning back, i return back the bike to my friend and told him that i dont want to buy it. he says ok and ride away.

The next day when i came back to college, i was told that my friend whom i tried on his bike have met with an accident and died. he died because his bike chain snapped while coming down the hill. i was so shock to hear this. i blamed my self. i feel that i was the one who have caused the chain to snapped when i release the hand clutch when i come down the hill. i was the one who was suppose to be killed ..not him.

i was haunted by this dilemma for many year until one day i'd realized that there are the cause for all this. the reason he is killed in the accident is because he did not maintain his bike and not because of me.

things for your to realised in life when you looked back ....have a laugh and move forward


Teen age:

Have Time + Energy …but No Money




Working Age:

Have Money + Energy …but No Time




Old age:

Have Time + Money …but no Energy